New Zealand OnlyFans star Layla Kelly, 34, and her partner of almost 19 years are here to prove that it's possible.
Their marriage thrives off communication and honesty — which led to Layla's husband kontol to give the star a year-long hall pass to sleep with as many men as she wants across New Zealand in 2025.
DailyMail.com had the pleasure of talking to Layla about her unique relationship and how the pair work through jealousy.
Layla, who was named New Zealand's Best Porn Star two years running in 2023 and 2024, explained how the hall pass came about.
'My husband and I are entering our 19th year together and thought [the hall pass] would be a fun way to spice up our marriage,' she said.
'In the past, we have experimented with extra people in the bedroom, this year we want to do that more regularly and share our experiences with our fans online.
'I know my fans love watching me with everyday men who aren't my husband and we get to have some fun at the same time, it's a win-win situation!'
New Zealand OnlyFans star Layla Kelly, 34, was given a hall pass for all of 2025 by her husband of 19 years
Despite thinking there would be jealousy, she explained to FEMAIL that he is fully supportive and enjoys her work
When FEMAIL asked who brought up the hall pass, the OnlyFans creator said: 'My husband and I had a threesome with another guy and afterward I told my husband that I wanted to sleep with random guys more regularly.'
The porn star, who makes $250k a year, said she started sex work during the couple's marriage about three to four years ago.
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She also said it was her husband's idea to start her account.
'I was on maternity leave and didn't want to go back to my job in finance, he suggested starting OnlyFans or something similar since he knew I was already very comfortable in my own skin,' Layla explained.
Layla's husband watches and edits her content and when asked if he has ever been included in her work, she said: 'Yes! We have filmed together but he prefers to film and watch.'
FEMAIL was curious if by watching Layla was her husband's way of being protective or a way to push aside any jealousy.
Layla said her man actually 'enjoys watching.'
'My husband enjoys watching me be pleasured, especially by random men, he gets pleasure from that so he is definitely not jealous but more excited!' she said.
She said her husband was the person who encouraged her to make an OnlyFans account
She also said while her husband has been in some of her previous work, he enjoys watching and editing
She continued: 'He is fully supportive! He doesn't work a regular job, we do this together full time.'
The star also revealed whether there had been any arguments between the couple about jealousy in the past.
'We always discuss before we do anything new then make sure to have a de-brief afterwards,' she explained.
'Sometimes you don't know how you will feel until the deed has been done and chatting afterwards means that we can make sure that everyone is comfortable with the same thing happening again or discuss if we need to change anything.'
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